Well the college life involves school, exams, midterms, and even relationships. you make friends that would probably last for the rest of your life , friends that have great links to opportunities , friends you just add on your face book to make your list look more charismatic . What about those friendships that you do and die for? what do you do when you feel as if you are giving too much , receiving too little and you start realizing your list of priorities are diminishing because of that one person , who you care "SO" much for.
I can actually say I have experienced this before, but oh well this isn’t about me. It’s about knowing the balance between caring for you affirmations, and being there for others in a relationship there is always that one person who feels like they are left behind, or just being brighten on a lovely ride of their partner’s great journey to success. How do you make this a two car ride right beside each other?
First thing is dating is like research you are trying to find someone to accommodate you, and you both compliment each other. You don’t need to take care of anyone else, unless family, husband /wife, or a partner. So that was simple you are not taking care of boyfriend, or girlfriend. Especially if you are in a bad finical situation or, for needless to say they can accommodate themselves; but there is well given exceptions to also helping them. Another thing to really think about is, is there really any time to have a boyfriend, or girlfriend. Ask your self are you giving up on anything that is really important to you to maintain the relationship. It usually is better to actually be with someone when you are in a comfortable place in your life, and NOT being comforted by theirs.
The answer to the question of me or the other person is obviously you?
If you start seeing that you’re procrastinating, or even if you start coming up with excuses to stop doing things you like. It is possible that you are not focusing on you anymore.
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